Your attitude towards anything is what makes it so.
“We cannot change our past… we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. And so it is with you… we are in charge of our Attitudes.”
― Charles R. Swindoll
When something happens to you, no matter the circumstances, it is ALWAYS how you react to it that will create the outcome.
Whether that situation is small or big, you can and will get through it.
How do I know?
I’ve been down this road many, many times before, and only recently realized how my own attitude has changed with the same circumstances. I don’t find myself overreacting and having my pity party for too long (don’t get me wrong, I still have one), but rather I fall down, sit there for a bit, and then get back up and get to work figuring out what my next step is right now.
That is all we have is “right now”.
So what can you declutter right now to change your circumstance for the better?
Embracing the Power of Now
In the midst of life’s challenges and setbacks, it’s easy to get caught up in the past or worry about the future. However, the true power lies in the present moment. By focusing on the here and now, you can reclaim control over your attitude and actions. Instead of dwelling on what has already happened or fretting about what might come to pass, shift your attention to the present moment and ask yourself: What can I do right now to improve my situation?
Cultivating Resilience Through Adversity
Adversity is a natural part of life, but it’s how we respond to it that truly defines us. Rather than allowing setbacks to define you, use them as opportunities for growth and learning. Cultivate resilience by adopting a positive attitude and refusing to let temporary obstacles derail your progress. Remember, every challenge you face is an opportunity to strengthen your resilience muscle and emerge stronger on the other side.
Finding Strength in Community
While facing challenges alone can be daunting, you don’t have to navigate life’s ups and downs solo. Reach out to friends, family, or support groups for encouragement and guidance. Surround yourself with positive influences who uplift and inspire you to persevere in the face of adversity. By leaning on your support network, you can find the strength and courage to overcome even the toughest of challenges.
If you have any questions, please reach out to me at podcast@declutterforchange.com
Episode Timestamps
[2:58] Is it going to be overnight? Nope.
[5:32] It is not you, it is not who you are at your core, it’s just an item.
[8:56] Maybe you’ve just changed their life by just having this conversation.
[13:11] We are meant to move forward.
Heather Clark, Declutter Expert
Helping you navigate the change by decluttering your MIND | BODY | SOUL | HOME.